Let’s talk about Marriage

Kemarin gw membaca tentang pernikahan anaknya AR. Gw baca hujatan beberapa orang ke mereka berdua. Gw sendiri mempertanyakan banyak hal.  But, hey! Who Am I To Judge?

Gw banyak membaca tentang pernikahan seperti ini. Orang yang menikah tanpa saling mencintai. Mereka menikah karena mereka harus. Apakah itu karena usia, karena ekonomi, tekanan keluarga, atau karena itu keputusan logis yang harus diambil, dll.

Di satu sisi gw berpikir lagi, bagaimana perasaan mereka? Apakah mereka pernah mempertanyakan, Is it right or not? You should go to bed with a stranger. Making love with him/her. You gonna wake up in the morning and he/she’s the one right next to you.

People outta there, are you happy?

Gw tau bahwa perasaan berubah. Hari ini mungkin lo biasa aja ama seseorang. Bisa jadi besok lo malah jatuh cinta sama dia. Atau mungkin lo malah benci ama dia. Tapi bagaimana kalau perasaan itu tetap platonic?

Is loveless marriage possible?

 

 

There’s no fixed “template” for marriage. Every marriage is different. Tapi gw inginlah minimal sedikit merasakan that butterflies sensation in my stomach… It never happened kecuali gw pertama kali digandeng ma mantan2 gw. Dan sekali lo merasakannya, lo ketagihan. Its pretty addictive.
Last but not least, mungkin gw bisa menjalani hal ini. But still… Gw akan cari orang yang setidaknya gw merasakan chemistry ma dia.

For some people, love is a beautiful mental illness.

But for me, love is one big illusion I should try to forget.

Welcome to reality.

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